Joseph's paternal grandparents moved from Ogden to Long Beach last September, just a month before we made our exodus from Utah to the Bay area. We've been meaning to visit them since we moved, but we ended up having an extremely busy life since then. Well last week was our lucky week. It was also our last chance before Akiko starts kindergarten next week.
We planned on leaving Friday morning. I wanted to leave no later than 10am. Yeah, that didn't happen.
I wasn't able to pack Thursday night. I was busy getting all our laundry done so we'd have clean clothes to wear. Asher was rather fussy all day so I ended up spending the bulk of the day consoling him in addition to doing laundry and making sure the older kids were happy and not getting in trouble or in the way. I gave up on trying to get the house cleaned that day.
So packing and cleaning ended up happening Friday morning. Joseph tackled the cleaning while I did the packing. Oh, and we also had to dress and feed everyone. It took forever to get our short list done. We kept getting interrupted or suddenly remembering other things we needed to do before we could leave. Asher was fussy again. The older kids were doing pretty well staying out of our way and playing with each other while we occasionally checked on them. Then, of course: CRASH! SCREAM!
Here's what happened: Joseph had just checked on the kids. When he left, Moses was sitting on top of the piano bench. Akiko was close by. I think they were both trying to play the piano and started fighting over whose turn it was (remember, I was in the other room trying to pack). We heard the crash and Moses' screaming cry and Akiko repeating, "It was an accident!" Joseph ran in to check while I picked up Asher, who I had just barely calmed down enough to set down, but started crying again because he was startled by the commotion. Joseph found Moses under the bench with a big bump over his eye. Akiko felt really bad, but she was still in trouble. Joseph and I had very little patience to deal with everything, but we eventually got everyone calmed down enough to resume what we were doing.
Here's the bruise. It's a couple days old at this point. There was a huge goose egg on his brow, but that disappeared within the first 24 hours. It ended up being very colorful. Moses thinks it's pretty cool. Boys!
Well, we finally left our house around noon. By that time, the kids were hungry for lunch and wanted McD's. I was pretty flustered, but decided it was best to keep them happy so that I would stay sane, even though it meant I had to make a u-turn and backtrack a few blocks to do so. It actually ended up that I had to do that anyway because Joseph realized we left the tools at home that his grandparents wanted us to bring down. Back home, then McD's, then finally on the road after a quick stop at the mall?
That's what I'd hoped, anyway. Joseph needed an adapter so he could power his Macbook on the road so he could work on the way down to SoCal. The mall, which has a Mac store, was on the way. What's a quick stop to get one?
Well, I parked on the wrong side of the mall, which is huge, so Joseph had to run the whole length of the mall only to find out that they don't sell anything like that, but that they did at Best Buy, then he had to run the whole length of the mall again to get back to us. Luckily, there was a Best Buy across the street. Still, from the time we left our house, that whole process cost us another two hours.
Well, we finally made it on the road and on our way to Long Beach at 2pm. Four. Hours. Late. Ugh!
Thankfully, the drive down was rather uneventful. However, when you're driving half the length of California with 3 small children, the drive ends up a bit longer than the 6.5 hours Google Maps says it takes. Stops for potty breaks. Stops for nursing the baby. Stops for dinner and gas. We finally ended up in Long Beach around 930pm, just in time to say hello and goodnight to Joseph's grandparents and auntie. All in all, we made pretty good time, except for the late start.
Oh! I almost forgot! About halfway there, I realized I'd forgotten to pack the baby some clothes. I packed everything else for him. Just no clothes. We stopped for a potty break. I checked Asher's diaper. He had a blow out. There was baby poop all over him and it ended up also getting smeared on the only pair of pants I own that are comfortable for me to wear. I had planned on wearing those pants all weekend. Thankfully, I had an extra outfit in the diaper bag for Asher to change into. Tragically, I had no other pants to change into. Le sigh!
Oh! There was also a car that was completely engulfed in flames about an hour north of San Fernando. Traffic wasn't terribly heavy so we weren't too backed up. It was cool, scary and sad all at the same time. Joseph broadcast it, but the video is jumpy because the streaming isn't so smooth, but you can watch it
here.
So, there's the trip down to Long Beach. Let's talk about the time we spent in Long Beach.
Saturday morning was mostly spent recuperating from the trip down. Grandma, Grandpa and Auntie Helen instantly fell in love with Asher. Who can blame them?
Here's Auntie Helen with Asher. Apparently, I neglected to get pictures (yep, still working with my cell phone) with the grandparents with Asher. I think Joseph took some with his phone, though, but I didn't think about that until just now. Drat!
And of course, everyone fell in love with Akiko and Moses all over again!
And here's Grandpa Jack!
Well, since Asher had no clothes for the weekend and I had no clean pants, I decided to go to the store to buy some. I just grabbed Asher a couple cheap outfits. I desperately needed pants that fit me comfortably anyway, even if they're only going to fit me for a few weeks. I'm still losing baby weight. I really dislike this part of post-pregnancy when nothing fits. Yep, another pants rant.
When I got back from the store, I found Akiko and Moses had fallen in love. Auntie Helen has two tiny pet turtles. Their names are Chow Yun Fat and Jet Li. The kids couldn't get enough of them!
So, it's important to note that when I was planning our trip to Long Beach I was careful not to mention "Long Beach." I simply told the kids that we were going to go visit Grandpa and Grandma and Auntie Helen. You see, if I'd mentioned "Long Beach" my kids would automatically assume that we were going to THE beach, which is their favorite place on earth. In fact, when we finally pulled up to the grandparents' house on Friday night, it had been mentioned that we were on our way to Long Beach. Moses became upset that we had stopped at a house and not the beach.
While the grandparents live only a few blocks from the beach, I didn't know if we would be making the trip down to the beach. Then again, how can we be visiting someone who lives so close to the beach and not go? So we went.
I wasn't planning on going to the beach, but I packed the kids' swimsuits so that Joseph could take them. I though I'd do some window shopping somewhere, but I decided to chill at the beach with my family anyway. That's why I'm not dressed for the beach. Besides, my six week post-natal recovery wasn't up so I couldn't swim anyway.
The water in Long Beach is a lot colder than the waters we are used to encountering on Maui, but my kids didn't care. They dove right in. I love that I have beach babies! I wish they were less frightened of the pool.
We can't ever go to the beach and not dig a hole. It's pretty much tradition. I should mention that the dude digging a hole with my little family is Joseph's cousin, Hamad. He's the guy in the background of all the other pictures above, as well.
Here's my contribution to beach play. I couldn't get on my hands and knees to help dig, so I practiced
rond de jambes and made circles in the sand. Then Joseph made them into faces. They remind me of Anpanman, who, by the way, Moses will be for Halloween.
Here's what Akiko and Moses ended up looking like by the time we decided to go home. Sand, sand everywhere! Ok, not so much on Moses. He'd already been rinsed. I usually look like this, too. I don't mind much getting sand all over. We love the beach too much to care.
After we went home and washed the sand off, we went out to dinner with Grandpa, Helen and Hamad at the Belmont Brewing Company (BBC) back at the beach. It was tasty. I don't have pictures except the one of Helen with Asher which is posted above.
Sunday was eventful. First thing in the morning, I got to go pick up my sister, Kristen, from the John Wayne airport in Anaheim. She came out to visit us. Yay! I love my sister!
Then, a couple hours later, Joseph's brothers, Sam and Jake, accompanied by Sam's German girlfriend, Debbie, joined us in Long Beach. They drove down from St. George. Debbie was flying back to Germany from LAX after spending a month in the states. It was fun to meet her in person!
I think she was thinking of taking Asher back home with her. ;)
Since we've moved to California, we gave up the luxury of having family living so close to us. We went down to visit four people and ended up getting to visit with twice as many. We even got to take Kristen home with us for a few days! What a great weekend it ended up being!
Thank you Grandpa Jack, Grandma Deanne, Auntie Helen and Hamad! Hopefully we'll be able to visit you again soon!